unschoolingDecember 31, 2005 3:48 pm

goes a long way. 5 year old Blue Boy is full of questions. My job is to do my best to answer them. If I don’t know, then it’s to the internet we go. Today started with what makes earthquakes happen? Well, I know a little about faults and plates, but not enough to satisfy his curiosity. Away to the computer. In no time at all, we learned about the magma at the center of the earth, the layers of crust, and that most earthquakes are never felt. But why do they happen? Turns out, these plates are always slowly shifting, and when they meet, it’s called a fault line. He found the North American plate and Pacific plate and Indian plate right away. When these plates meet at faults, they rub together, causing a release of energy that rumbles and bumbles its way to the surface, be it slightly or trememdously. Obviously the tremendous tremors are the ones we feel. We also read that the plates shifting and touching causes layers of crust to be worn away, reducing the size of the plate, bit by bit. After surveying the picture of plates across the screen, he immediately deduced (rightly or wrongly, but it made sense) that clearly the Indian plate had been rubbed quite a bit, losing much crust, as it seems to be the smallest plate. Well. Sounds good to me. He asked if we live in an earthquake zone, so we learned that those places are most often largely on and near the faults we can’t see. Like California. He saw that it lies on the fault made up by the Pacific and North American plates. So yep. Lots of earthquakes there. Like we see on the news. Why do they still live there, he wondered. I just don’t know. And it’s expensive. Makes no sense to me.

So we read a bit more, learned a bit more, and somehow were led from earthquakes and faults and plates, to electricity. Maybe we said something about if an earthquake happens, one may lose power. Why do we lose power. Well, our lightbulbs and oven and hair dryers and hot rollers are all plugged into the walls, and powered by electric transformer things, and if that source of power goes, so does our ablility to access that power. Where does the power come from? Well, it’s all electricity. What’s electricity? OK, other than Ben and his kite, I couldn’t answer concisely enough. Back to the internet. He was soon shouting out to his brother and sister that electricity was “discovered” by Ben Franklin with that kite and lightening experiment, that lightening and electricity are the same thing, and that all electricity is made of the movement of electrons in atoms, which everything every where is made of. Well how does it get into our house? So we went on to Thomas Edison, and the Kinetoscope, and the electric lightbulb and phonograph. And do you know what? Ben and Tom were homeschooled. Tom’s teachers and Dad even thought he was somehow retarded, definitely unmanagable. And extrememely poor in math. Huh. Shows what a little freedom in learning can do.

And from there, somehow, the solar system. Maybe it was the talk of the storms that produce the lightening, somehow got us to the sun, the sky, the earth, and we were on to the planets in the solar system. Jupiter is the biggest planet, has no rings…Saturn is the next biggest, has rings…Pluto is the smallest and the Earth is third from the sun, he told his siblings. Excited. He absorbed it all, and asked for more. What is the hottest planet, I asked him, Mercury, which is closest to the Sun, or Pluto, which is farthest? Mercury, he stated. Why, I asked. Because it’s closest to the Sun, and the Sun is hot, he declared. So, he asked, why is Texas so hot? OK, back to the drawing board. Bring me the globe. We found the equator, and talked about its position relative to the Sun, verse the North or South poles, and their position. The light came on. Oohhhhh, he figured out, then anything closer to the equator is hotter. Texas is closer than South Carolina, but here, Mexico, is hotter than Texas. And up here (pointing at the Artic) is coooold! Yes, yes, yes. And he couldn’t quit running in circles declaring all his newly acquire knowledge. He was thrilled, therefore, he’ll most likely retain it.

As I type this, he has returned to the room, glancing out the window at the trees in our back yard. Why do we have trees, Mom? Um, to give shade, house animals, and help us breathe by helping to create oxygen. How do trees create oxygen? Oh good grief. It’s a process called photosynthesis, and we’re into our third hour of impromptu “school”. I’m going to need some food and drink before we head into that. And a chance to rest my eyes, fingers, mouth and brain. This is living and learning, and loving to learn. This is stuff he’ll keep in his head. And I’d put these 2 hours of sitting together, discovering, up against at least 2 weeks of classes, drills, tests, worksheets, coloring pages, and flashcards. We covered nearly 3 units of science! And he’s only 5. And after I insisted on a break, he asked for “stuff to do”. So is now, doing a word find on Edison, and filling in words and colors on a solar system page, and a drawing of the Earth’s tectonic plates.

These are the moments that get me through the sometimes crud of having the children with me nearly all the time. And the proof, to me, that it is about being available to meet these curiosities, as it is happening. In the moment of interest and excitement. True learning, and the love of learning can’t be planned. It’s not easy, but it’s awesome. Kind of like having these children in the first place.

P.S. And lest you think, Wow, they’ve got this unschooling thing down, at the time of this post, I’m still in my jammies and the house is a wreck. Can’t do everything.

house and home 11:15 am

You can’t have it.

Went to Home Depot yesterday, in this adventure called our Project Kitchen Remodel. They have this service, for free, that allows you to sit down with a designer, and a CAD program, and dream up all of your wildest kitchen fantasies. Well, the ones they sell. The designer whips out her handy dandy Book o’ Dreams, plugs in all your kitchen coordinates and poof! Behold your kitchen. Glorious organization. Special nooks and crannies for each and every tiny knick knack you could possibly collect. Stainless appliances (of which we’ll need a range/oven). Rice paper glass front cabinets. Silestone countertops, in Stellar Black. Like that extra deep drawer with proper corresponding size pegs for your plates? It’s yours. The Super Base Organizer with space for every spice and every lid to every pot you own? Presto. There it is, right on the computer screen. Wine storage, glass storage, built in desk with file storage and printer cabinet? Yep, yep, yep. I’m loving it. Super duper deep pantry will roll out shelving? Oh, yes. Exclusive utensil drawer base with pull out cutting board and 2 extra drawers? Yes, please. And add that wall cabinet specially designed for cookbooks and built in pull out cubbies for recipe cards. Love it, love it, love it.

After 3 hours, much brain damage in critical decision making, and many back and forths on the correct stain color on our beautiful new cabinets-to-be, the designer hit the “Caculate Cost” button. (clickety, clickety, click click, print) We glance at the screen. Wow. $1200. Well, that’s kind of high, but we do have some gift money. Whew. Um, noooo, designer lady says slowly, that’s $12,000. Twelve thousand dollars. Not twelve hundred.

For a minute, the Kitchen Showroom area goes black. Our heads spin. I might have tried to say something. I can’t remember. I just heard that figure, over and over and over and over, reverberating in my brain. Twelve thousand, twelve thousand, twelve thousand. And it doesn’t include hardware, the range or the counter tops. Just the cabinetry. Plain. Base price of our dream design. Then she chirps something about how this is the way to do it. Start big. Dream big. Then pare down where we need to, to fit our budget. Fit our budget? The Super Base Organizer is, alone, $800, we find out as she prints out the list. The pantry with smooth roll out deep drawers? $1250. The 2 way access storage for a piece of the island? $525. And on and on it went. Why did no one mention these prices as we added extravagance upon extravagance? Wouldn’t it have made more sense for her to say something like, I dunno, how much can we spend??? But noooooo, you start with the stuff you drool over, hear some vague pitch about their limited time offer, like ending in the next 3 days, 12 months, same as cash, and refinancing, home equity and interest rates, and then get your little kitchen dreaming heart ripped out.

Deflated, but wiser, we lumber back out to the truck. You know, if I hadn’t taken our old cabinets to the dump already, I just put’em back up, says Mr. Tango. What were we thinking? Exclusive utensil organizational drawer, our arses. Hey, the only thing we really need is a range, some storage baskets and the wine organization. That’d cost what, a grand? That, we can handle. Paint it all one color, turn the lights low, and leave up the Christmas lights, and it’ll be perfect. Romantic even. Who needs all that other stuff? Not us. Then we’d just have to keep it clean, and organized. This way, we can just dump most of our stuff in a few baskets, and voila’! A perfectly adequate kitchen. If I have more counter space, I’ll just be expected to use it. Plate drawer? I’d have to keep the plates neat. Silly, silly idea.

When short on cash, that kind of cash at least, you have to get creative. And afterall, in the end, then it’s unique. Right? More us. At least, that’s what we’re telling ourselves this morning, in our 2x2 feet of counter space. And the oven that turns itself off in the middle of cooking something. And the holes in the flooring left after ripping out the old cabinets. It’s kind of grown on me. I kinda like it this way. No one else has a kitchen like it.